DAY 7 – WRITE SOMETHING THAT YOU WISH SOMEONE WOULD HAVE TOLD YOU 10, 5 OR A YEAR AGO. Pay it forward. Share your best advice.
I wish I have a fairygodmother… in the flesh.
I wish she had woken me up on the morning of my 12th birthday that and told me.
I am a true queen in the fullest sense of the word – whether there is a king or not.
I have the power to stand on my own two feet and rise up to every challenge that life throws my way.
I am a complete by myself and don’t need somebody who can’t add to my joy and sparkle. Nor lift me into a higher vibration.
I can make my own decision without having to ask anybody if it’s okay or not.
If I can do it or not. If it’s right or wrong.
I wish I can summon her in a blink of an eye every time a man would say that…
I can’t scream and shout.
I can’t climb a tree nor ride a bike.
I can’t wear short or jeans nor play with the boys.
I don’t need an education because a girl’s greatest accomplishment is to get married. Or that I’m too old for that. Or I have my limitations.
I don’t need to look for a job. I don’t have to write because it’s a man’s job.
Or there’s no money in it. It’s not even considered as work and nobody’s going to read it anyway. Perhaps one or two. And that’s a pity.
There’s no need to put on my make up and lipstick not because I am naturally beautiful inside and out but because I am not going anywhere but here inside my own little bubble of a house.
I am already in a committed relationship and it’s okay to lose myself in the process.
I wish someone would tell me that …
My strengths will come from my own power. That my opinions and decisions matter – even if they are different, too weird or if the truth is too much to handle.
That the search for love for oneself and the pursuit of happiness are not simply ideas created by Hallmarks solely for Valentines day but for everyday spent here on earth. That there is some truth in it – even if nobody sees it because it is coming from the heart and not the mind.
I wish someone would say that…
My choices and needs are important. That they are fully accepted as my own and not as somebody else’s. That I can say what I want to say without walking on eggshells. Without interruption. Without disrespect. Without abuse.
My religion and political choices are mine and based on my own perception and beliefs whether these are the Universal truth or not.
I can live my own life. Pay my own bills. Cook my own food. Or date myself because I need my Me-Time too and don’t have to ask anybody’s permission. Or give explanations for my behavior. Or live up to anybody’s expectations.
A queen should be on equal footing with her king.
Not above her. Nor below her. Not behind nor in front.
A king should be standing next to her queen so that he could hold her hand if ever she fall or stumble.
A queen is never given a command. She is asks politely and graciously.
A queen is not considered a “dominatrix” but a gentle soul to be cared for.
A queen is a woman not a wh__e for entertainment and selfish pleasures.
A queen is a mother not a maid who is always at his beck and call.
A queen fortifies her queendom and strengthens the souls of her subjects.
A queen is fair and rationale.
And I wish I have a fairygodmother who will say…
“Dear, your list may be too long, but your wish is my command.”